Maintain A Vegetarian Diet When Your Husband And Kids Are Die Hard Meat Eaters

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  Kruger, Freddy Kruger
  October 9th, 2008

  if you do the cooking it should be up to you what you cook, if they dont like it they can lump it, simple as that

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  tersey562
  October 12th, 2008

  You just need to make lots of veggie side dishes (which would serve as your main dishes) with their meat products. My 11 year old is pretty much a vegetarian but eats lots of vegetables, the potatoes and applesauce or peaches or another fruit with dinner. I also prepare certain dishes (like a stir fry) where the meat and vegetables can be done separately and combined at the table so everyone is happy. Good luck and God Bless.

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  Sassy
  October 12th, 2008

  Since you are the only one who doesn’t eat meat, (also assuming you’re the cooker in the family), then you should try to cater to the desires of your family. If your husbands and kids are die hard meat eaters, let them have their meat (at least a small portion of every meal is best). I know if my mom tried to force me to be a vegetarian, I’d stop eating her food and consume other snacks in the house instead. No one likes to be forced to eat anything.

  But, on the same note, if your husband cooks, he needs to keep YOU in mind. It would be inconsiderate of him to have an all meat meal and not offer you any alternatives.

  The best thing to do, overall, is compromise. Accept that you have differences in eating, and find a way to get around those differences without sacrificing your family (or letting your family sacrifice you) what they want in their diet.

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  SST
  October 14th, 2008

  make dishes that cater to both… Spaghetti /w meat balls, cook the meat balls seperate and add them to the meat eaters meals but omit them from your own… Chicken primavera again meat cooked seperate and added to theirs.. things like that… If you try to cook two seperate meals it will end up breaking you down…

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  darwical
  October 15th, 2008

  Here are a few ideas.
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  viewjunkie
  October 18th, 2008

  Tell them to get their cholesterol checked. Especially your husband. If it’s even remotely on the high side and he’s young (30-45) tell him he’s probably on his way to living a lot shorter life if he keeps eating meat in ‘die hard’ quantities. Cut back on it and introduce some of the fake meat types of food like Quorn brand chicken cutlets, Boca burgers, etc. All that stuff is EXCELLENT and won’t increase the risks associated with eating like your knuckles drag.

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  al l
  October 21st, 2008

  Just substitute your meat portions for fake meat or beans. Whatever you make for them just replace the meat with beans and you can follow your diet and they can follow theirs.

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  VeggieTart
  October 21st, 2008

  pssst….if you eat fish, you’re not really a vegetarian.

  Okay, so the only meat you eat is fish, but your family likes all sorts of meat. Easy. Cook vegetable side dishes vegetarian, cook your fish/tofu/tempeh/vegetarian main thing, cook the meat for the family, and you eat the stuff you cook for you, and they eat the other meat. Or you can ask your husband if he’ll cook the meat part, you’ll do the rest.

  Try to ensure there are leftovers for one big reason.

  If you do a casserole, you can either make two half portions, one with meat and one without, or you can use veggie crumbles in a chili or stew to fool them. If they don’t want that, they can have leftovers.

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  Eric
  October 25th, 2008

  I am sorry but your son and husband are ignorant individuals for even saying the world will come to an end if we dont eat meat it is actually exactly the opposite…How can the world go on if millions of tons of animal feces + urine run off into our water supplies daily from factory farms? How can the world go on when people contract cancer from the antibiotic and hormone injected meat? Please educate them both. Dont be scared to speek out geez.

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